“Laws control the lesser man… Right conduct controls the greater one.” ~ Mark Twain

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“A reputation for a thousand years may depend upon the conduct of a single moment” ~Ernest Bramah
Question: What might we need to be aware of on our journey today?
Answer: Hexagram #10-Treading, Changing Lines 5 and 6, which yields Hexagram #54-The Marrying Maiden
*Note-because there is more than one changing line for this reading, we will only be paying attention to the one in the 5th position (5th line from the bottom), which is consistent with Taoist Master Alfred Huang’s method for solving the problem of understanding multiple moving lines. His commentary on the subject can be found in his book The Complete I Ching: The Definitive Translation on page 16.
Summary of the Reading:
Interestingly, the reading for today focuses on the need to pay attention to proper conduct (right speech, right action, etc.) as we continue on our journey today (Hexagram #10-TREADING), and reminds of us our need to be mindful of our place within our situation and to work to fill our own space within our own boundaries (Hexagram #54-THE MARRYING MAIDEN). This is a reminder from yesterdays reading, where we received Hexagram 54 as our primary hexagram, our main guidance for the day. This must be something we are working on together, as it is being brought to our attention once again!
Hexagram 10-TREADING-uses the image of treading on the tail of a tiger as a metaphor for understanding the power of our words, actions and intentions when moving in the world. It is best to know and follow the rules of engagement for any situation, as the slightest mistake or error in judgment and action can lead to devastating consequences, as the tiger will think nothing of biting us for the slightest transgression. The key to success in the current situation lies in cultivating a sincere and agreeable personality that can meet any situation, no matter how difficult, with decorum. Remember, “Pleasant manners succeed even with irritable people.”
Specifically we are guided to remain mindful of the potential dangers present as we resolve to move forward confidently. We are leaders, however, we may not have the support of those we lead. Because our intentions and motives are pure, we can be assured of a successful outcome if we remain friendly and agreeable towards others and conduct ourselves with grace and sincerity.
We must also remember the guidance of Hexagram 54-THE MARRYING MAIDEN, which reflects the need to make our own place within our situation, even if the position we find ourselves in is not of our choosing or our liking. Sometimes we find ourselves in positions we didn’t choose to be in, and it is often in those times that we find ourselves in resistance to the confines of that position. However, if we let ourselves believe that “the grass is greener,” which we often unknowingly do as we complain about our lack of influence or power within our relationships, we will have lost our way. Actually we not only lose ourselves in the complaining, but those around us lose, too, and it is easy to get lost in the fight against the situations and positions we find ourselves in! To move successfully when we find ourselves without influence, we must “make this grass green”-work to make the best of our situations, give direction to our lives within our own known boundaries, fully and completely fill our space in all that we do, and thereby become an essential part of the whole.
Know your place, knowhow to conduct yourself, work within your own boundaries, and you will contribute successfully!
-Tricia Stanaland
This reading is copied verbatim from the Wilhelm/Baynes translation of the I Ching. You may view a copy of this version online at http://www.akirarabelais.com/i/i.html
Primary Hexagram:
10. Lu / Treading (Conduct)
d
above CH’IEN THE CREATIVE, HEAVEN below TUI THE JOYOUS, LAKE
The name of the hexagram means on the one hand the right way of conducting oneself. Heaven, the father, is above, and the lake, the youngest daughter, is below. This shows the difference between high and low, upon which composure, correct social conduct, depends. On the other hand the word for the name of the hexagram, TREADING, means literally treading upon something. The small and cheerful [Tui] treads upon the large and strong [Ch'ien]. The direction of movement of the two primary trigrams is upward. The fact that the strong treads on the weak is not mentioned in the Book of Changes, because it is taken for granted. For the weak to take a stand against the strong is not dangerous here, because it happened in good humor [Tui] and without presumption, so that the strong man is not irritated but takes it all in good part.
The Judgment:
TREADING. Treading upon the tail of the tiger.
It does not bite the man. Success.
The situation is really difficult. That which is strongest and that which is weakest are close together. The weak follows behind the strong and worries it. The strong, however, acquiesces and does not hurt the weak, because the contact is in good humor and harmless.
In terms of a human situation, one is handling wild, intractable people. In such a case one’s purpose will be achieved if one behaves with decorum. Pleasant manners succeed even with irritable people.
The Image:
Heaven above, the lake below:
The image of TREADING.
Thus the superior man discriminates between high and low,
And thereby fortifies the thinking of the people.
Heaven and the lake show a difference of elevation that inheres in the natures of the two, hence no envy arises. Among mankind also there are necessarily differences of elevation; it is impossible to bring about universal equality. But it is important that differences in social rank should not be arbitrary and unjust, for if this occurs, envy and class struggle are the inevitable consequences. If, on the other hand, external differences in rank correspond with differences in inner worth, and if inner worth forms the criterion of external rank, people acquiesce and order reigns in society.
The Lines
° Nine in the fifth place means:
Resolute conduct. Perseverance with awareness of danger.
This refers to the ruler of the hexagram as a whole. One sees that one has to be resolute in conduct. But at the same time one must remain conscious of the danger connected with such resoluteness, especially if it is to be persevered in. Only awareness of the danger makes success possible.
Relating Hexagram:
54. Kuei Mei / The Marrying Maiden
C
above CHêN THE AROUSING, THUNDER
below TUI THE JOYOUS, LAKE
Above we have Chên, the eldest son, and below, Tui, the youngest daughter. The man leads and the girl follows him in gladness. The picture is that of the entrance of the girl into her husband’s house. In all, there are four hexagrams depicting the relationship between husband and wife. Hsien, INFLUENCE, (31), describes the attraction that a young couple have for each other; Hêng, DURATION (32), portrays the permanent relationships of marriage; Chien, DEVELOPMENT (53), reflects the protracted, ceremonious procedures attending the arrangement of a proper marriage; finally Kuei Mei, THE MARRYING MAIDEN , shows a young girl under the guidance of an older man who marries her.
The Judgment:
THE MARRYING MAIDEN.
Undertakings bring misfortune.
Nothing that would further.
A girl who is taken into the family, but not as the chief wife, must behave with special caution and reserve. She must not take it upon herself to supplant the mistress of the house, for that would mean disorder and lead to untenable relationships.
The same is true of all voluntary relationships between human beings. While legally regulated relationships evince a fixed connection between duties and rights, relationships based on personal inclination depend in the long run entirely on tactful reserve.
Affection as the essential principle of relatedness is of the greatest importance in all relationships in the world. For the union of heaven and earth is the origin of the whole of nature. Among human beings likewise, spontaneous affection is the all-inclusive principle of union.
The Image:
Thunder over the lake:
The image of THE MARRYING MAIDEN.
Thus the superior man
Understands the transitory
In the light of the eternity of the end.
Thunder stirs the water of the lake, which follows it in shimmering waves. This symbolizes the girl who follows the man of her choice. But every relationship between individuals bears within it the danger that wrong turns may be taken, leading to endless misunderstandings and disagreements. Therefore it is necessary constantly to remain mindful of the end. If we permit ourselves to drift along, we come together and are parted again as the day may determine. If on the other hand a man fixes his mind on an end that endures, he will succeed in avoiding the reefs that confront the closer relationships of people.